How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Making more friends is a goal.

If there exists a “New York of Australia”, is it Sydney or Melbourne?

Procrastinates a lot.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Does not procrastinate.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Ask yourself:

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What is your favourite colour and why?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

That's it for today.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What I need from you?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why don't I want to talk to my girlfriend when she loves me a lot? I feel bored.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.